I recently went through a costly divorce, along with using poor judgement on some expenditures. I am 34 and living with my parents and am anxious to get out on my own. I wanted to borrow against my 401K to give me capital to do this and my employer would not allow me to. So after 10 years with the same company I quit and took another job so that I could access the 401K money I have. My former employer seems to be in no hurry to release the money to me, it's been about 40 days now. Can anyone tell me what their legal obligation is to me? I know I'm entitled to the money and don't they have a time frame in which they have to release it to me? Also, what is my recourse if they don't?
James