QUOTE (J Simmons @ May 11 2007, 09:16 PM)

I've responded by sending the IRA custodian a letter explaining that QDROs are a concept only applicable to ERISA plans and IRC sec 401a trusted plans, and that since it's insisting on a QDRO for an IRA governed by 408 rather than 401a, the custodian's insistence of a QDRO indicates that the custodian thinks that ERISA applies to the IRA. So then I also include with the letter an acknowledgment for the IRA custodian to sign that the IRA custodian is an ERISA fiduciary with respect to the IRA, with all the attendant ERISA fiduciary duties and liabilities. That usually causes them to withdraw the request for a "QDRO".
As for the LOI (medallion guarantied), I'd explain that if the IRA custodian persists, you'll recommend that the divorce attorney for the spouse of the IRA owner file to bring the IRA custodian into the divorce case as a party to it, so that the court can hold it in contempt if it fails to follow the court's order dividing the IRA.
Good for you Simmons.
All the custodian should be asking for is a copy of the divorce decree or legal separation instrument , clearly stating that the IRA is part of the settlement, and the portion of the IRA that is awarded to the receiving spouse. The document should also reference the account by number- so it is clear to which IRA the document applies.
The custodian may also require written instructions to effectuate the transfer to the receiving spouse's IRA, if the IRA ( to be credited) is not provided in the decree.
On the flip side, custodians often receive QDROs for IRA, and requests from attorneys asking the custodian to either approve a QDRO format or provide instructions on how to prepare a QDRO for an IRA. It seems there is confusion on both sides about the plans to which QDROs apply