I have been trying to find answers regarding my brothers 401K.
I am his only survivor and last Aug when he died I applied to be administrator.
The attorney that I talked to today had a big web site and it stated that they were ERISA attorneys and did free consultations.
I called and someone ask me a lot of details and then told me that the senior attorney would call me toda but I had to give them a 250.00 deposit over the phone.
I was to call at 2:00 and have up to a 30' consultation. Well I thought that finally I would get some answers.
I didn't talk to the attorney that I was told I would have the consultation with and then after explaining things he could not give me one answer.
I didn't learn anything more than before I had the consultation.
In order for him to have any answers he wanted a 7500.00 retainer.
I ask him if he could not give me any answers what did I get for the 250 dollars. He said it was all complicated.
So now this is the third attorney that I have paid and I have nothing in return.
In a brief description my brother was divorced three times he made me beneificary of his life insurance and he told me I was beneficiary of his benefits.
It turns out that he never got the second wife off of his 401K as the beneificary and after talking to his third wife she said that he had always told her that he had made her beneificary when they were married.
Fidelity says they don't show any beneficary and the company attorney was the one the told the first attorney that he never got his second wife off.
From what I read of the summary plan benefit after a year if the beneificary had not made a claim it would go to the estate.
Also in the divorce decree she waived it and it is very specific in the wording.
The money is still in the account and I don't think she would have any idea that she was listed.
I have not been demanding with these attorneys they just tell me things and I pay them and find out they don't know anything about ERISA.
HELP please I can't keep going through this on top of the grief of his death.
dulan
