You have to wonder, hearing some of the horror stories about rot, mold, whatever, if in the long run it sometimes isn't better to have a complete loss and just rebuild. No fun either way. But in the long run, it's just things - if everyone came through it alive and safe, the rest really doesn't ultimately matter. Still very stressful at best.
We had a partial loss due to a fire 20+ years ago, and cleanup-repair of water/smoke damage was not enjoyable, but everyone safe (no one home but me at the time, and fire started in an outbuilding) and I got the pets out, so that's all that mattered. Like you, we considered ourselves very lucky. Since then, I've never griped about paying my homeowner's insurance premiums!