I had a question regarding an amicable divorce for medical reasons, in which my husband is already receiving his disability benefit as a 75% Joint spouse option. If I state on the divorce decree that his Annuity remains his now, to avoid the split, is a Qdro still needed for my benefit upon his death or the pop up upon my death. The lady at the plan says no, but will want the divorce decree which will state the pension remains my husbands. Why else do the need the decree now. I do not trust them.