My divorce settlement was agreed to in April of 2023. My attorney had the QDRO prepared and sent off to the QDRO Provider (VOYA). It has been sitting with VOYA for about 10 months now because, come to find out, my employer and VOYA have not agreed to terms on setting up the administsration of the QDRO. (VOYA took over IRA's etc., last year). In the meantime, because my ex-husband's attorney won't file the final divorce decree, I continue to pay spousal support. I have talked to a representative from VOYA as well as my employer and they say a settlement beween them is close. Close? It's been 10 months. Any ideas on what I can do? or do I just have to sit and wait, meanwhile continuing with the spousal support? We tried to push my ex-husband to have his attorney file the final divorce decree before we get the QDRO finalized, but they won't go for it.
