What to do after QDRO has been submitted to x-spouse retirement company who will not release funds? The Company was submitted all legal papers, then company requested a rewritten amendment in the language they preferred which was completed by an attorney, the company then asked for my spouse and my social security which were also submitted, the company then requested for a judge seal which was also done and submitted. The company erased all emails from their server between myself and all representatives....after I had printed every single email out. My attorney is not longer available to assist in this matter due to illness.