Thank you Effen for your concise and timely response. I am going to call the PA again today to see if a QDRO exists or no. But, I was reading on the subject in this same site that if considerable amount of time has lapsed and no QDRO has been filed, then per statute of limitation, the opportunity to file is lost?
When you say: "... They should have "QDRO Procedures" that specify their rules, but generally, they notify both the participant and the AP that they have received a request for payment," ==> Do you mean that: as soon as I apply for benefit, they will notify the AP that a request for benefit has been made? And that they have 180 days to file a QDRO?