We have a QDRO filed with our divorce. I am wondering when is that the ex is able to start collecting.. When we divorced I was at my 25 year mark at work. She gets approximately 7 years worth of my pension.
Now I am reaching my 30 years, when I am allowed to retire if i wish, but I am not.
Does the ex wife have to wait until I start collecting in order to collect from her portion or can she start when I would be eligible if I chose to at my 30 year mark?