Hi MoJo and Belgarath - many thanks for your comments - very helpful - this is exactly the guidance I was looking for.
So we will be divorced in the UK and we will then seek a US court to enforce the terms of the UK divorce decree (the only aspect that needs a US court to be involved is in dividing the pension arrangements). The UK divorce decree will have the draft QDROs attached that spell out the agreed elements.
The venue to bring this action is straightforward - we previously lived in Houston and that is where the company I worked for has its head office.
However, I have tried to find a lawyer in Houston to take on this job but I am not having much luck in finding one interested. Maybe I am not being clear in what I am seeking, or the request is too unusual.
I am describing the work as "I need you to take QDROs that are part of a UK divorce decree and have them signed by a US judge in order for the pension administrator to divide the pension arrangements as described in the QDROs".
Should I be asking something different? Any ideas on how I can find a lawyer willing to take on this job?
Many thanks for any suggestions.