I am on a committee that is the plan administrator for a defined benefit plan. A decree of divorce was entered ending the marriage between Employee X and spouse. The next day, Employee X committed suicide. Weeks later, spouse applied for and obtained a QDRO for 1/2 of X's benefits. For the plan, the committee denied the QDRO. Our denial was based on the advice of our ERISA attorney and actuary. They explained that the entire benefit "died with X" because he died single and before the plan received or even knew of any QDRO might be coming.
The spouse has applied to the divorce judge who decided to vacate the decree of divorce, restoring X and the ex-spouse to married status, due to the "unique and compelling circumstances", including that the Decree had not even been delivered to either X or the spouse by the time of X's suicide. Of course, it's obvious that the motivation for the divorce judge vacating the decree of divorce and pronouncing them married at the time of X'd death is to obtain for spouse a part of the benefits.
Our ERISA attorney and actuary both have never heard of an attempt by a divorce court to manipulate a pension benefit in this way, or whether it would be effective to do so. What say you?