Ruth

I need to find an attorney who has been successful in having a QDRO removed from a pension. 27 year marriage, divorce in Ohio January, 2012, I paid exhusband 9 years maintenance, plus 50/50 split all other assets. His attorney requested the QDRO in addition to above list. We have two adult daughters, one disabled, waiting for a determination from SSI. At time of divorce my attorney considered listing daughter as a "Castle Child", an adult child not likely to ever be self supporting. Didn't persue, daughter's health continued downhill, medical bills $300,000+ ++ out of pocket. QDRO needs to be dropped due to this life changing inequity as I completely care for our daughter physically and financially. The QDRO is inequitable based on these facts. Suggestions? Facts? Direction? Thanks, R I will update my post as I learn and make progress.

Before trying to have a QDRO removed from my pension I want to get some facts on the possibility of even having a court change the order. Reason for request, expenses for disabled adult daughter. Input? R