My wife and her ex got a divorce just over 18 years ago. He was too cheap after the divorce to file for the QDRO and asked my wife's attorney to do it. She told him if he wanted it, to have his attorney do and pay him. Just over 18 years later my wife retired and she has been getting her pension for the past 2 years. His attorney sent us a demand for her ssn so he can talk to the place she retired from years ago and see if there is a QDRO in place. There is not and was not at the time. Now he is trying to get her to pay him a lump sum of money. It does not work like that. The program states that he would have to roll anything he is entitled to in the divorce decree into his own IRA. He has none. Can he really come after her after all this time? He has an attorney snooping around and he will not get her ssn from us.
