My husband divorce in NYS in 2000. We married in 2005. Ex wife filed QDRO 3 months prior to our marriage in 2005. My husband retired 2012. She began receiving her portion of the QDRO benefit when my husband retired in 2012. She is on SSD also. We found out she remarried on 3/24/18. Is she still able to receive QDRO, SSD and be remarried? We are struggling????