(NYS) My ex- wife received a portion of my annuity (via the first executed QDRO), medical benefits through me for life, and cash as part of our divorce settlement in the 90s. The QDRO was signed by all parties, the judge, and filed.
Flash forward to now. we recently began to process of receiving my pension and annuity and my union demanded we send a waiver for signature to my ex wife. She refused to sign, lawyered up, and filed another DRO (already accepted by the plan administrators) with the judge who has also signed and delivered the papers on to me.
I would like to fight this, as I’ve seen the chances of her winning aren’t great, and want to know what the logical and rational response to the judge should be.
id planned to file a motion indicating, among other things, that the pension was NOT a part of the divorce settlement.
no minor children involved...
any help will be greatly appreciated!