My BFF’s husband recently passed away. QDRO with ex wife as AP: should the ex have been paid out her 50% of QDRO at the time of divorce 9 years ago? This is for Pension and 401K only. Life Insurance death benefit is in lieu of remaining balance of alimony upon death (12% only of Life Insurance policy).
Noe that he is dead, what is my BFF entitled to, especially if QDRO hasn’t been yet paid to the ex?
seems like the ex is getting all the documentation and my BFF as the current wife and executor of the Estate is getting little to no info or help from her late husbands company.
thank you.