I have an ex who retired on purpose after coming into 62,000.00. He retired on purposed in order to reduce his support obligation to me because we have a 10 year old child together. He was married before and they had 2 children who are grown adults one is actually married. His attorney is claiming that his former spouse is entitled to 347.00 per month of his pension payment because of a QDRO. I do not understand this? I did not receive a QDRO in my divorce and I was married to him longer than his first spouse. They were married 5 years and we were married 8. How can this woman be entitled to anything when the children are grown and gone and how can the amount that he has to pay her have anything to do with my child and the purpose of calculating his support obligation. I do not feel she should get anything but if that is the law then at the very least the 347.00 she receives should not reduce his monthly income for calculation of support for his daughter with me.
