boomo99

thank you very much

I have about a 250,000 lump sum option i can take from the job i had in NH which has no state tax. if i take that lump sum while living in kansas, will kansas take state tax, even though i never worked in this state? or is it time for me to move to another tax free state?

JM, so how do i tell the qdro center this exactly? when i called them they said the qdro was denied because her SSN was not supplied. seems like if i call them and share what ive learned, they probably wont just say, oh your right, here is your money. seems like i would have to still go thru courts or some other legal thing. appreciate everyones help

why do u think it was denied then? If what you say is true, shouldnt i be able to get my portion and she get hers when she provides this info? thanks

yes, more then 10 years ago, i live in kansas now and may have that info back in NH where we were married, but not sure where it would be. havent filed jointly in 12 years, so cant get those records now.

yes, she is due about 25% of my 200,000 either in lump sum or monthly whatever she decides, but when submitted it was rejected because osram didnt have her SSN. and now she wont submit it, at least hasnt yet and she was notified 10 days ago

qdro was finalized, she finally signed it and my lawyer submitted to my ex employer. It was denied because her SSN was not submitted and they did not have it. I dont know it, so of course i tried in many ways to reach out to my ex to supply it to my lawyer and she just wont. so now what? is there a point i can just get my pension without her getting it if she doesnt comply? oddly, my lawyer has not returned any of my questions, so i have come here. thanks