In the divorce that was finalized on April 20, 2021, I was awarded 60% of his 401(k) plus additional money. I have filed with my QDRO attorney and all is ready. All he has to give the attorney if the amount of the 401(k) the day we got married and the amount the day our divorce was final. He refuses! My attorney that I had for divorce is a JOKE … she is doing NOTHING. Except sending emails to OC and then charging me $250, but with no results. I have asked to file contempt of court but she won’t. I don’t know what to do!!! This was a domestic violence situation and I just want to get on with my life. I would file it myself but I can not find a form to fill out to file. PLEASE HELP!