Hello - our divorce settlement has language on need for a Qdro. The marriage was only about three years and the sum of money is relatively small ( less then 25k) and it is simply in regard to a 401k nothing else. We paid $2k for the Qdro to get done but for a variety of reasons we find ourselves 5 years later with a difficult record garnering issues to complete the Qdro. Can my ex and I, as mutual agreeable parties, ask for the Qdro to me removed if we can agree upon a lump sum. My ex is getting married and that is the reasons both figure we should do something to just finalize it. Qdro attorney says it is not the easy for all usual reasons why we should have just taken care of this originally (jobs have changed, plans are different, loans, etc) we live in PA. Hoping we can just go to Master and ask for a lump some? Thoughts?