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I am new here but have read dozens of posts and realize that you guys are really knowledgeable and generous with your help. And I really need help. I went through a nasty divorce, and 4 years later am still trying to finish the settlement. My Ex works for a huge publicly traded global company. Ex and the Plan Administrator have been friends for over 20 years. I cannot get a full and straight answer from the PA as to what my choices are to get my 50% (awarded by the court) of the employee stock options in the account. Every time I try, the PA contacts my Ex and then feeds me Ex's version of what he wants me to know. I finally went back to court and got a Court Order for Ex to authorize the company to give me the full information, but it is still being filtered by the PA. I did finally get to see the account statements and have learned (after the Court Order) that in these 4 years, Ex has exercised and sold some of the stock. This situation of some sold shares and some unexercised Options probably has complicated the decisions on how to divide the account assets. The only condition in the divorce decree is that the asset is to be settled in a way to cause the least tax liability to each of us. He is in a very high tax bracket and has to consider AMT. I am on SS and in such a low bracket that I owed no taxes the last 3 years. How can I learn if the employer's Plan allows for Options to be transferred to me (and exercised at my own tax level) or what other choices I have in this asset division? Thank you for any and all help.