The answer is YOU ABSOLUTELY MAY NOT allow this one union member in the plan UNLESS the bargaining unit has provided for such a benefit in the bargaining agreement that covers these folks. If you let him in and the bargaining agreement does not permit it, you have engaged in an unfair labor practice. Letting the one employee in without negotiating the benefit is a forbidden union "busting" technique.
This is also the reason why every non-collectively bargained plan of any sort should exclude collectively bargained employees.
My limited experience is that the bargaining unit will not likely permit one member in and not the others.
Bill
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