Fairness is a relevant topic, especially in areas touched by tax policy, where subsidies create economic distortions. Distortions can be viewed as unfair to an individual or group or viewed as beneficial to the larger society, based on some notion of values of the political winners. The unfortunate history of subsidizing employer-provided health benefits is an issue that is a deeper level in the same mine shaft as this topic of employer subsidies of marriage and children. There are more overt examples of subsidy or penalty of marriage and children. The institutions and culture created by tax subsidy for employer-provided healthcare are now a big factors in the political arena in the debate about how best to make health care available and affordable. It is a shame that the elements are not recognized for what they are so they can be objectively evaluated in instead of manipulated by emotional appeals. The fight did not start with jpod's observations.