I left a detail out, the granddaughter is the daughter of a deceased child. The participant was divorced so no spouse. The plan states that distributions after the spouse go to "your children, including adopted children in equal shares (and if a child is not living, that child's share will be distributed to that child's heirs" The 3rd party advisor stated that “child’s heirs (granddaughter, in this case) are only eligible if all children of the participant are not living”. The plan administrator followed this and distributed to the son only. Now the plan administrator has said that the granddaughter should have received half.