Hi Scott, you can only roll money from one like account to another. For example, an IRA can go to a 401k and vice versa.
Your variable life insurance policy isn't an IRA, therefore, it cannot be rolled into a 401k.
Also generally withdrawals from annuities and possibly variable life insurance are LIFO, which means last in last out. Your earnings if they are LIFO are withdrawn first. Sometimes withdrawals may be pro-rata. Pro-rata would mean $80,000 basis and $20,000 of earnings. For every $1 withdrawal, you will have $.20 of earnings and $.80 of basis. You would have to call the insurance company to find out. I don't think you can elect to withdraw your basis and leave your earnings, it's just not something you can do.
Meet with a licensed advisor or PM me.