Thank you everyone for your feedback. We have the QDRO fees come from the account of the Participant. This is stated in the fee addendum of the SPD, but not stated in the plan document itself. The participant fee disclosures state that the hourly fee will be deducted from the account, but do not get more specific. The timing of the fee deduction (before or after distribution is processed/calculated) and the QDRO language could determine whether the Payee is sharing in the cost at all. For example, if the QDRO is to be 50% of the vested balance at the time of distribution, one company may withhold this fee and then split the account to pay the Payee, which would be a sharing of the fee. Another might split the account and then withhold from the Payee's distribution before processing. A third might split the account and then deduct from the remaining balance. It sounds like all are acceptable.
ESOP Guy - If we just had the sponsor pay and let it get worked out separately, then the Participant would not have the option to pay from his plan account, which can be helpful, since these fees are often a few hundred dollars.
GMK - Interesting that you let the Participant and Payee decide who pays. One more thing to bicker about. It would make life less complicated if there was a set rule, but it seems as though that is not the case.
QDROphile - You are dismayed by my question, but then go on to confirm that there are many ways of handling the fee. I was hoping to get feedback on how others handle, which is what I got, so I stand by my question. Thanks for your thorough answer!
Also, I would not have a QDRO fee shared amongst all plan participants as a general expense, even if this is allowable. Just doesn't seem right. Most of our plans are individually directed, but even with a pooled account, I would apply to the participant's balance.
Thanks again everyone!