As to the question of the plan being changed to no longer allowing these kinds of payments - I was told that was NOT the case and there has been no amendments to the plan.
The reason I am not wanting to move to IRA is because so far...the 401k QDRO has covered me from having to pay the 10% penalty for early withdraw.
When requesting a withdraw in the past thru their website I have been selecting TERMINATION because that is what THEY told me to select because I am not nor have I ever been employed with that company. Like you stated the SPD spells out what you can do rather than what you can not do. The SPD clearly states a partial or total withdraw is allowed for termination.
I'm guessing the real issue is with the term termination...
Thanks for the response