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You are right on the money with your guessing.....Thank you for your replies.

ESOP Guy Thank you for that information about Fidelity! I never even thought once about asking them for anything. But you helped me a lot today!!!!

The person who did your QDRO also might have answers for you because they go by the decree and what it states. READ your decree and what she was awarded.

Well mine has been frozen and the the admin said until the QDRO is signed by the Judge it will not be touched. Oh and she said I have to wait. Just wondering if they continue the game of entering a new QDRO every 10 months will keep me from my funds as it has for the past 4 years now. Thank you for your reply.

I just wanted to ask, I have a admin approval of a QDRO from 4 years ago and then a new QDRO was sent in for approval so I was told the 18 month rul starts over each time a new QDRO is sent in for approval. The funds have never been segregated and I asked why and the admin stated that the QDRO has to be signed by the Judge first. But you would think after 4 years of this they would segregate the funds at so I could get some money that I worked for. But it has been frozen the entire time and they are to get gains and losses until segregation? Could you have an court order it done? Segregation that is.

So if the plan has agreed to it being a good QDRO and sends for Judges signature but the Judge does not sign because now the ex does not agree how long should one wait for a QDRO? I'm going on 4 years of delay and they are getting gains and or losses during this time right?

Have a motion from the ex asking to include a sum of money to be paid to her or the attorney to pay my half of QDRO prep, mediator etc. Can this be done? They have been holding this up for 4 years now because the decree has third party payments owed to be paid from my Fidelity account. They state the QDRO does not conform to Amended decree so I said then lets amend and the ex said no that they amended already and deserve finality.