I found out two years ago that the pension administration of ex spouse did not approve the QDRO submitted by court. It was unacceptable, my attorney withdrew at the end of settlement and appointed another attorney to have me sign the papers! My ex has been receiving the full pension.
I have a stipulated Resolution in which I'm entitled to half; his lawyer has since pass away! I'm on a limited income and the state is Delaware which I no longer live in so legal aid can't help me! My ex is aware of this; he called the administration and they sent him forms to resolve this but its been two years and he has not! The administration actually told him he would be better to just remarry me; we were married 25 yrs and he worked for General Motors!
