If the plan is ERISA-governed, New York’s or any State’s law about how a divorce might affect a beneficiary designation is superseded. ERISA § 514, 29 U.S.C. § 1144; Egelhoff v. Egelhoff, 532 U.S. 141, 25 Empl. Benefits Cas. (BL) 2089 (2001).
As Lou S. mentions, a plan’s governing documents might or might not provide that a divorce revokes an earlier beneficiary designation. See Kennedy v. Plan Adm’r for DuPont Sav. & Inv. Plan, 555 U.S. 285, 45 Empl. Benefits Cas. (BL) 2249 (2009).
To the extent that an ERISA-governed individual-account plan does not provide ERISA § 205 survivor annuities, such a plan provides that the participant’s surviving spouse gets the account, unless that spouse consented to a different beneficiary designation. ERISA § 205(b)(1)(C), 29 U.S.C. § 1055(b)(1)(C).
A qualified domestic relations order may provide that an alternate payee who is a former spouse of the participant be treated as the participant’s surviving spouse for all or some ERISA § 205 purposes. Such a provision could wholly or partly deprive the participant’s actual surviving spouse of a benefit to which the surviving spouse otherwise might become entitled. ERISA § 206(d)(3)(F)(i), 29 U.S.C. § 1056(d)(3)(F)(i).
A contingent beneficiary designation has no effect until all spouse benefits under ERISA sections 205 and 206 are exhausted.
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