Getting Ex-Husbands 401K part of divorce

[Guest Natasha S]

I have tried so many ways to all his bosses and retirement places w/no help how to get what is do me. I am exhausted and having such difficulty. I need help w/different avenues before he wipes it all out! :angry:

[Jean]

Your post doesn't provide much information...was there a court order issued upon your divorce (sometimes referred to as a domestic relations order or QDRO) that directed a portion of the 401(k) funds to be transferred to you? If yes, has it been delivered to the employer and/or plan administrator (usually the same person) of the plan? If it was delivered, you should have received written acknowledgment that it was received and the steps the plan administrator will follow in reviewing the court order.

[jkdoll2]

I have tried so many ways to all his bosses and retirement places w/no help how to get what is do me. I am exhausted and having such difficulty. I need help w/different avenues before he wipes it all out! :angry:

Do you have a QDRO in place signed by the courts? Do you have an attorney? If so - I would take him back to court.

He needs to let the retirement places know - and the retirement places shouldn't be paying him out if there is a QDRO in place.