Reversing a QDRO? Finding an attorney?

[Ruth]

I need to find an attorney who has been successful in having a QDRO removed from a pension.

27 year marriage, divorce in Ohio January, 2012, I  paid exhusband 9 years maintenance, plus 50/50 split all other assets.  His attorney requested the QDRO in addition to  above list.

We have two adult daughters, one disabled, waiting for a determination from SSI.

At time of divorce my attorney considered listing daughter as a "Castle Child", an adult child not likely to ever be self supporting.  Didn't persue, daughter's health continued downhill, medical bills $300,000+ ++ out of pocket. QDRO needs to be dropped due to this life changing inequity as I completely care for our daughter physically and financially.  The QDRO is inequitable based on these facts.

Suggestions? Facts? Direction?

Thanks,

R 

I will update my post as I learn and make progress.

[Mike Preston]

You need to talk to an attorney in your jurisdiction.

[QDROphile]

 One aspect of what Mr. Preston is saying is that a revision to a property settlement in a divorce is first a matter of state domestic relations law that must be addressed before anything "QDRO" is considered.

[MoJo]

Are you still in Ohio, and if so, where?  I know of some attorney's doing domestic relations law in the state - but like most places, finding someone "local" to the court in question would be best.